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		<title>I&#8217;ve Been Tumbling&#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Dec 2011 04:26:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nanette</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A while ago I began to notice that many of the people I liked to read were disappearing from their blogs. This, of course, is understandable&#8211;after all, I regularly disappear from mine. Some I tracked to Facebook, others to Twitter, and this last batch I tracked to Tumblr. It is, it seems, too much to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="dropcap-first">A while ago I began to notice that many of the people I liked to read were disappearing from their blogs. This, of course, is understandable&#8211;after all, I regularly disappear from mine. Some I tracked to Facebook, others to Twitter, and this last batch I tracked to Tumblr. It is, it seems, too much to ask that everyone just stay in one place, so here I went trotting along after them.</p>
<p>Mind, I&#8217;ve had account at all three for years, but after my initial liking of both Twitter and Facebook I can&#8217;t stand either of them now. I didn&#8217;t last on Facebook for long at all, but I was all ready to write the praises of Twitter when I suddenly tired of the whole thing. But, well, now I have been giving <a title="my Tumblr page" href="http://nanettehb.tumblr.com" target="_blank">Tumblr</a> a try, and I like it. So far. I like the wonderful, funny, and awful photos that people find, the brilliant quotations, the bits and pieces of science news and&#8230; well, lots.</p>
<p>I fear, though, that what I most like about it is that I don&#8217;t have to write. I can just reblog pretty pictures, or the stuff other people have written as a sort of &#8220;what she/he said&#8221; and I am done. I have Tumbled. I don&#8217;t even have to become a part of any conversations and, except for a few brief comments, I don&#8217;t. I don&#8217;t have to do anything at all myself, create anything at all, really, if I don&#8217;t want to. And, so far, I haven&#8217;t.</p>
<p>Which makes me think it might be time to put that aside as well. Or, at least, to limit my participation on it. It&#8217;s not that I can&#8217;t write on there, or that no one does, but I have trouble doing so. Wackity brain issues.</p>
<p>Anyway, I have plans and thoughts and ideas and things to do and to write, and it&#8217;s about time to do them.</p>
<p>&nbsp;</p>
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		<title>no kibble, no peace</title>
		<link>http://nanettekelley.com/2011/03/24/no-kibble-no-peace/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Mar 2011 23:58:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nanette</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I used to have the sweetest cat. Really! Very polite, never jumped up on the counters, ate only off of her own plate, would sit by my pillow and wait patiently until I woke up in the mornings, was always so soft and cuddly, good with kids, all of that. And then she got old [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="dropcap-first">I used to have the sweetest cat. Really! Very polite, never jumped up on the counters, ate only off of her own plate, would sit by my pillow and wait patiently until I woke up in the mornings, was always so soft and cuddly, good with kids, all of that.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://nanettekelley.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/1748-angry-cat.jpg"><img class="size-medium wp-image-2061 aligncenter" title="1748-angry-cat" src="http://nanettekelley.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/03/1748-angry-cat-300x162.jpg" alt="angry cat over teacup" width="399" height="215" /></a></p>
<p>And then she got old and turned into a raging old bat. Oh wait, no, that was me. But the cat has still had a bit of a personality change. You know how when some humans age, they stop bothering about stuff? No longer worried about &#8220;convention&#8221; and opinion and all that?</p>
<p>Well, that&#8217;s Cat. She jumps on the counters and the tables and if you leave a plate around, and she&#8217;s hungry, she&#8217;ll help herself. She&#8217;s also decided that she wants to eat when she wants to eat, and who cares if it&#8217;s 4 AM? She&#8217;ll yowl, and yowl until either someone (me) gets her some food, or someone (me) gets up and throws her out of the room. And even then, out of the room, she&#8217;ll yowl at the door.</p>
<p>It wouldn&#8217;t be so bad if she had a soft, cat-like &#8220;meow.&#8221; But she doesn&#8217;t. She <em>can</em>, mind you, sound very sweet and kitty-like. But not when she is demanding food. No other word for that noise but a yowl. It&#8217;s dreadful.</p>
<p>So, I&#8217;m trying to get her back on some sort of normal being hungry/eating schedule, but to do that I have to ignore the noise. Far easier said than done, especially if I am trying to concentrate on something. I sometimes fail at this regulating business and just feed her just to shut her up. Which, of course, makes her even more demanding the next time.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve only been keeping her temporarily the past 18 or 19 years until I find her a good home. I have now stepped up my search.</p>
<address>[photo at the top is not my cat. thank goodness.]<br />
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		<title>Jan 3 &#8211; 7 interview questions</title>
		<link>http://nanettekelley.com/2011/01/03/jan-3-7-interview-questions/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 03 Jan 2011 16:43:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nanette</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A few days ago, in another life, I mentioned that I was going to conduct an interview with myself over the course of the next year, in an effort to prise open some of my closed inner spaces.  It sounds kinda silly, I know, but I am curious to see how it turns out. Will [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="dropcap-first">A few days ago, in another life, I mentioned that I was going to conduct an<a href="http://nanettekelley.com/blog/2010/12/21/interview-of-the-year-me/"> interview with myself</a> over the course of the next year, in an effort to prise open some of my closed inner spaces.  It sounds kinda silly, I know, but I am curious to see how it turns out. Will it add greater depth to my writing, if I dig deep? Are there any surprises in store? Or will I just blow the whole thing off? We shall see!</p>
<p>Anyway, so that I am not obligated for every single day, I will limit the interview to five questions a week, most likely done Monday through Friday. I plan to post the questions for the week either on Monday morning or Sunday sometime, so that anyone who also wants to interview themselves can use these questions or make up their own. If you are doing it, and feel comfortable sharing, I&#8217;d love to know. You can post a link in comments, or your answers themselves if you wish.</p>
<p>I thought at first that I should make up all sorts of tricky questions but then I realized that the important thing wasn&#8217;t the questions, it&#8217;s the answers. So, regardless of how mundane the inquiry, it&#8217;s up to me (and you) to make of the answer something good, or powerful, or at least something I&#8217;ve thought long about.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m not explaining anything well this morning because it promises to be a busy day, but anyway, here are the questions. I will probably answer my first one this evening:</p>
<p>1. Why are you doing this? What do you hope to accomplish?</p>
<p>2. What is your favorite color?</p>
<p>3. What is your earliest memory?</p>
<p>4. Do you believe in heroes?</p>
<p>5. What is your Utopia?</p>
<p>I&#8217;ll probably give a little more thought to the next set of questions but these will do to begin with.</p>
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		<title>um&#8230; what?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 16 Dec 2010 00:04:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nanette</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Annoying habit #3572 &#8211; giving odd titles to draft posts, with no indication of what they mean. Like&#8230; &#8220;theoretical life at the intersections of ice cream and bran flakes&#8221; What the heck? That doesn&#8217;t even sound like me &#8211; but apparently I wrote that in November and I have NO idea at all where I [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="dropcap-first">Annoying habit #3572 &#8211; giving odd titles to draft posts, with no indication of what they mean.  Like&#8230;</p>
<p>&#8220;<strong>theoretical life at the intersections of ice cream and bran flakes</strong>&#8221;</p>
<p>What the heck? That doesn&#8217;t even sound like me &#8211; but apparently I wrote that in November and I have NO idea at all where I might have been going with it. I wrote no text in the post, just the title. Hate when I do that.</p>
<p>And I don&#8217;t even drink, so drunken midnight revelations is no excuse.</p>
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		<title>i admit it, sometimes i&#8217;m really intimidated</title>
		<link>http://nanettekelley.com/2010/10/25/i-admit-it-sometimes-im-really-intimidated/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 26 Oct 2010 00:26:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nanette</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[And perhaps even a little creeped out by people who are so sure of where they are going, who know what they want out of life, and who plan years in advance of how to get it &#8211; then follow the plan. Me, I&#8217;m 50-something years old and still trying to figure out what I [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="dropcap-first">And perhaps even a little creeped out by people who are so sure of where they are going, who know what they want out of life, and who plan years in advance of how to get it &#8211; then follow the plan. Me, I&#8217;m 50-something years old and still trying to figure out what I want to be when I grow up. </p>
<p>Does this mean I&#8217;m the proverbial &#8220;screw-up&#8221;? </p>
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		<title>random confession: browser hate fail</title>
		<link>http://nanettekelley.com/2010/06/30/random-confession-browser-hate-fail/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 01 Jul 2010 00:15:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Nanette</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Of all the browsers I have and regularly use &#8211; Firefox 3, IE 8, Google Chrome, Opera  9 &#8211; I most unfashionably like IE the best. Sigh. There goes my geek card.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="dropcap-first">Of all the browsers I have and regularly use &#8211; Firefox 3, IE 8, Google Chrome, Opera  9 &#8211; I most unfashionably like IE the best.</p>
<p>Sigh. There goes my geek card.</p>
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